How to connect to your inner superhero

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Sometimes we can do all the chilling and netflix-ing and it doesn’t seem to be enough. Just like we spend quality time with loved ones we have to spend quality time with ourselves. This is where the practice of yoga comes in handy. There are many different definitions and translations of yoga but the one that I like best is “union”. Bringing together body, mind and heart. The focus is on YOU and creating a treasured relationship with yourself.

Ease of flow

Sukha and Dukha are Sanskrit words used to describe the state of flow in yoga. Sukha being the ease of flow and Dukha being obstruction of flow. I love these descriptions because they apply to every aspect of yoga from the physical practice, to the breath work, to meditation and emotions. In all of these areas a gentle flow is always more helpful than forceful pushing or clearing. Only when we are kind to ourselves, are we able to create this ease of flow and remove any physical or mental obstructions.

Ready, Set, Listen

What is the kindest thing we can do to a friend who is stressed out and overwhelmed? We can sit with them and kindly listen. This is what we should do for ourselves as well when spending quality-me-time. Take a moment to listen to body, mind and heart. Here is how:

  1. Get comfortable in a place where you know you won’t be disturbed for at least the next three minutes. (I used to do this in the bathroom when my day was super busy) You can sit or lie down whatever is most comfortable to you.

  2. Close your eyes, take a deep breathe in through your nose and breathe out slowly through your mouth, then ask yourself: How am I feeling today? How am I feeling right this second?

  3. There will be all kinds of thoughts rushing your way but just try to listen, like you would to a good friend. Don’t interrupt, don’t lecture, and most of all don’t to judge. Just be there and listen.

Uncovering the inner Superhero

No thought is too strange or stupid. It is important that all thoughts are heard. Let them bubble up and float away like clouds. No need to forcefully clear your mind or get rid of your thoughts. All our thoughts are precious, the good ones and the not so helpful ones. Thoughts are like little children; they want to be heard and if you ignore them or try to quiet them down, they will just get louder.

Learning to just listen to our thoughts without interacting or interfering can help us to decipher which thoughts are helpful and which ones are just the little devil or critic on our shoulder trying to scare us.

Underneath all your thoughts and voices is your inner superhero hiding. The voice that says, yes, all that but I am stronger. I’m scared but I will do it anyway. I can be my own cheerleader because I know what feels right is right for me. Our inner superhero always guides us back to love.

I call this voice my inner superhero because I’m a huge comic and fantasy nerd, but there are other name for it like Intuition or inner guide. The point is that you make it your own, call it whatever feels right to you. Maybe it is the power of your inner unicorn or the wisdom of your inner yellow frog. What matters is that this is the unique and wonderful you that you listen to and that all the other voices and thoughts naturally disappear around it without forcefully being cleared away.

Give this super simple exercise a try and spend some quality time with yourself. I’m sure you have an inner superhero just waiting to come out.

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P.S. I love this line out of the song “What about us” by P!NK:

Sticks and stones, they may break these bones

But then I'll be ready, are you ready?

It's the start of us, waking up, come on

Are you ready? I'll be ready

#listentoyourself #lostmyself #selflove #selflovemeditation #Iammybestfriend #findyourinnersuperhero #beyourself #beauthentic #beyourownkindofbeautiful #IamwhatIam

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